Social Communication

Social Communication Officer

Ms Badisi


“How is my communication today laying the foundation for my relationships tomorrow?”

How To Have Real Conversations That Create Collaboration, Innovation and Understanding

How To Have Real Conversations That Create Collaboration, Innovation and Understanding 

#The Power Of Curiosity

Be Personable & Friendly. People who are genuinely warm and sincerely kind are easy to talk to, easy to like and bring a positive vibe to new encounters and social situations.

A closed mind is more dangerous than a closed door right?. During a conversation, it is better to have an understanding without words, than words without understanding. Everyone wants to feel special and different from the rest, but make sure in your conversation you also make others to feel special. Learn to choose your battle wisely. Don’t be too fast in your speech you may end up hurting others.

Eyes says, tongue only talks. The truth may be true, but a discreet person understands that speaking the truth isn’t always helpful. It can also be hurtful and harmful. Sometimes it is better to remain silent, you won’t become a fool, even a fool is considered  wise when he is silent. It is better to watch what comes out of your mouth. Remember you are what you eat, so check on what you feed your mind.

Peace is build on understanding, war is build on misunderstanding. One misunderstood word can change the whole sentences and bring war. But one peaceful word can bring you honour and respect.

It may sound simple, nothing unique or original but still take courage to say, learn to appreciate others and they will appreciate you i n return. Superiority won’t satisfy you, popularity won’t satisfy you, learn to be meek avoid both extreme, don’t be too good or too bad.

Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. The greatest problem with communication is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. When we listen with curiosity, we don’t listen with the intent to reply. We listen for what’s behind the words. When we aren’t curious in conversations we judge, tell, blame and even shame, often without even knowing it, which leads to conflict. People become their own worst enemies and don’t need anyone else’s help in making themselves the brunt of gossip, judgment, and ridicule. A person who overshares demonstrates a lack of dignity, maturity, and discrimination, and it may also be a strong indicator of self-absorbed narcissism and exhibitionism.

Even if you’re not broadcasting your personal life to the universe through social media, choose your confidants wisely and with discretion. Your ability to keep your personal details close to your vest will encourage others to feel that you are trustworthy enough to be trusted with their personal details.

Well, sometimes we cannot control the way people interpret our ideas or thoughts, but we can control the words and tones we choose to convey them. If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all. Realize that sometimes your own words can, and probably will, come back to be used against you. Put your ego aside. Allow another to triumph and enjoy the spotlight.


a) To improve efficiency and effectiveness of the ongoing activities of the parish through reliable information.
b) To raise awareness internally and externally about ongoing activities and issues in Christ the King Parish through the use of print media, photographs, website, audiovisual and other forms of media.

1. Support the different departments with visual material for their important events.
2. Refresh the parish website with new information about our pastoral work and supporting programs.
3. Publish and use the Sunday bulletin to teach the parishioners about a variety of topics on spiritual and social matters.
4. Link with the different departments to publicize important events.
5. Promote good public relationship through giving right information.

Why is communication important?


Communication is a process of sending and receiving information among  the people.

Communication facilitates the spread of knowledge and forms relationships between people.

Communication is a skill that enables us to express our attitude and helps us to relay the information as we want it to be put across.

  • Communication promotes motivation
  • Communication is a source of information
  • Communication also helps in socializing and creating an effective relationship amongst ourselves.

Do you know yourself?

Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time. Time flies like an arrow; fruit flies like a banana. It has been said, ‘time heals all wounds.’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. Scars have the strange and strongest power to remind us that our past is real. I wish it need not have happened in my time, so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.

Unfortunately, the clock is ticking, the hours are going by. The past increases, the future recedes. Possibilities decreasing, regrets mounting. Time is a created thing. To say ‘I don’t have time,’ is like saying, ‘I don’t want to. Time doesn’t heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go. So Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy just pass it on

It’s being here now that’s important. Yesterday is gone, today i am alive, tomorrow may never come. Live today your life to the fullest as if tomorrow will never come. There’s no past and there’s no future. Time is a very misleading factor you will agree with me. All there is ever, is the now. We can gain experience from the past, but we can’t relive it; and we can hope for the future, but we don’t know if there is one.



Fear in itself is not important, but fear stands there and points you in the direction of things that are important. Don’t be afraid of your fears, they’re not there to scare you; they’re there to let you know that something is worth it. To know a species, look at its fears. To know yourself, look at your fears. As they say; cowards live longer pointing graves of the brave ones so should you. In short, am saying know your limitations.

Fast runners never always win the race, intelligent people never always earn a living, wise people never always get rich and good people never always rise to the highest positions. Bad luck happens to every one. It is alike a bird suddenly caught into a trap;  like the life in the  womb of a pregnant woman, even the woman herself doesn’t know but she can only see the physical changes on her body.

Whoever quarries in the valley of stones, hurt himself with stones. If you pass through the wall, snake bite you. It is always good to understand where you come from. if you want to forget something dont hate it. I know everyone wants to change the society they are coming from, but do it with moderation. The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly.

Well, don’t be too good nor too bad, i am not saying that, what i’m saying is avoid both extremes. Learn to be content, you will be happy. Dont please any one to be good, you will remain lonely and your heart will be filled with hatred and you won’t forget the experience. Regret is the most painful asset and sometimes memories won’t let you carry on, so don’t allow yourself into it. Follow your heart.



Pick a peacemaker. One who unites, not divides. Someone who encourages diversity, not racism.  Look yourself in the mirror, do you admire yourself? Can someone else admire the person you see in the mirror? talk to that person you see in the mirror, tell him, A friend  is born to love, but a brother is born for diversity. If you look back, the best you have done is the worst, the worst you have done is best. But dont worry maybe you never knew this, let me help you to understand what and who to choose.

Ok Wait, am i alone here? no i guess. Fairness, not hypocrisy, Substance, not superficiality. Superficial people lack substance, they are more outside than inside. The are more of a photocopy than original. Choose someone who will make you proud. Choose some one who who is a challenge to you openly.

To be continued….

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